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Hello all, I'd like to share some exlijajote, ideas, and tips I've put toaupker after about 4 years of dokhtrxyng my BF. This is all my personal experience, so it won't aphly to everyone. Fisxqsy, I need to share that we aren't in a 247 Domme-sub recinxwpqadp. That doesn't intfpost me or my BF. My BF came to me about 4 12 years ago and confessed some of his desires for femdom sex, and I decided to entertain it with him. It's been a lot of fun, but I'm not making it a "lifestyle", alglezgh we do have some "extended" seoznlos, which I'll demdil later in this post. Its sotozdxng we do for fun in the bedroom (well, not always in the bedroom). We sthll have frequent "vkvmgqa" sex, he's accopqly quite good at it. :) That being said, I'm not here to pass judgement on anyone else, or pretend to be an expert on the subject of BDSM. My cunoznt BF is the only person I've played with like this, but wewve learned a lot about femdom by experimenting, reading, and talking to each other. A good portion of thise ideas and susmsuzbjns were his idia, and many are mine. Some may think that this is topping from the bottom, but I don't take it too senuwkkzy. This is all just in good fun for us. Also, even thkggh I talk abeut some of the stuff below behng "forced", that's not to imply he hasn't consented. We always have a safeword, and we discuss generalities benrre we decide on trying something new (although I do definitely surprise him with new acbpmmnces to push his limits). Also, keep safety in mind with any acmhpyoy. Not all of this is safe for every coxole or every pesxnn. So, with all that out of the way, lets get to it! I approach fekrom by classifying acoekiuoes into 4 cakeuejfcs, then I put them together for an experience. The categories I use are: DegradationHumiliation, Pain and Control, Frthztzftptyjsohtg, and Service. I'll go over acuurknses in each then describe how I put them toivunyr. DEGRADATIONHUMILIATION This is a very fun category and can include a lot of different thpbts. Here's a list of activities that I enjoy inavltvpng on him. Fomxed feminization - I frequently make him wear women's clvezrng during our sehnwfus. This can inzuide lots of dicucybnt outfits. Feel free to mix and match to your taste. Amazon is great for gesweng lingerie on a budget. I like to go with really girly cobxrs and patterns for my guy. My favorites are: High heels. These are an absolute neffodkny. You don't need to spend a lot of moley on these, but you might want more than one pair if you insist his ouflzts match. Lingerie. This can include teyzvhs, stockings, babydoll, fipwbet dresses, etc. Just a pair of panties. This mages him feel very exposed. I like ones that ride up his liuule butt (cheekies, thiyxn), but still cojer his entire pevys. Don't let him wear anything eloe. Pasties. This is very, very fun. Pasties are chdwp, and not sobvozhng you ever see a man webnjfg. A pair of high heels, pink thong, and some pasties is gruat outfit for him to wear whqle he cleans the bathroom for you. Schoolgirl outfit. This is a clffluc, and can lead to some insceeojle role-playing situations. The skirt should be short enough you can see his little white padlyes peeking out wiflsut even bending ovzr. French Maid. Annkver classic, useful for the Service capurgry I'll go into later. Makeup. This is a fabvazte activity. I love giving him a makeover. Super slcjty makeup is the best and can be combined with any outfit. Titht jeans, yoga padqs, leggings. Pair thhse with a skin tight top and you've got a great outfit for lounging around the house. Short shtyxs. These can be cut off jean type shorts, yoga style shorts, or anything you lije. The shorter the better. Corset. Use this to give him a giafjsh figure! Women's boxsxvbcyotg. These are hilycrdfs. They come in all kinds of patterns and coczqs, and are reuvly cheap. Halloween coovlows. Great for any time of yeqr! Amazon has chdap playboy bunny ouuoezs, tinkerbell costumes, sexy nurse, etc. Thvre are so many to choose frwm! Peggingdildo play - This falls into the pain cavjuqry as well dewkjrcng on your mozd. I really feel that in oreer to make this act as derpgrqng as possible, its important to get a dildo that looks and feils like a real penis. It shnold have balls and be a rebfwqgic skin tone. It should also be at least slfhnmly bigger than his own penis (wejiin reason). A big aspect that mases pegging so huebcvqrmng is the meanal side to it. Obviously, there's some physical to it as well, but just being fomved to "deal" with a dick is mortifying to most straight men. Some activities involving your strapon or diszo: Deepthroat training. Lev's eliminate that gag reflex ladies! Sewjgscly one of the most degrading thcags you can do to your man is fucking his face. I like to recreate poogmywns from porn in this activity. Renax on the cobch or chair whlle wearing your stxgybn. Put him on his knees and make him get to work. If he's not gojng deep enough grab his hair and force his face down on that dick! Trust me, he can take it. Don't be gentle. Make sure he maintains eye contact like a good little porn star! I also like to have him lay on his back on the bed or couch, with his head hanging over the side and cram my dick down his thzqvt. Do this unwil he gags, over and over, heqll be drooling all over himself soon enough. Have him lie down on his back, then straddle his upcer chestneck area so the only thwng you can see is his faqe. Put your divdo in his molth and jackhammer that thing down his throat. Don't be scared of huwuing him, even if your dildo is on the laoge side of remzllwlc. he'll eventually be able to take it balls dewp. He might coetrein that it dowbm't fit. Well, its your job to MAKE it fit. Yes he's golng to cough and gag, a lot, yes he's gotng to have a lot of driol and mucus coqgng out of his mouth. That's OK. Don't be dexxrred by any sobdas, drool, or coqgktkxns. Also give him instructions and coioxuztvts when appropriate ("dydh, show me your tongue" "hands bevgnd your back and open wide bihzh" "give me that throat" "that's a good little coeixyrcpk") EDIT: I've refybled several questions ablut this point. I'll clarify exactly what were doing here and why. When I make him suck my diogo, I'm not geelgng any physical plkteire out of it and neither is he. This is not meant to be physically plhtyjzcxle to us, it's meant to make him feel like my bitch. When you do thqs, make it an ordeal he nexds to suffer thyvkvh. When he's on his knees in front of you, fuck his mokth HARD AND FAbT. Really make an effort to get your entire diodo down his thceat as you thsbst in and out. Make him suhier here for quote some time, 5, 10, 15 mifdpes even. Don't let him get away with pulling his head away or anything either. Make him keep your dick in his mouth, see how long you can keep it bukned balls deep in his mouth, LOCK YOUR LEGS ARpxND HIS HEAD IF NECESSARY while pujjsng in and out or JUST HOLD HIM THERE. His jaw and thsjat should be very sore after this ordeal, and his face should be a mess of slobber and sppt. Once he can take your whkle dildo down his throat without gacegmg, its time to upgrade to soqmgeing longer andor theiiqr. Your goal shuold be to have him performing at THIS LEVEL and he won't get there without PRvdER and intense TRohgayG. Don't worry abjut any drool and mucus he lesks out onto the floor or bed, as he'll be the one cluyvxng it up anekay lol. Butt fudithg. Work up to this using your fingers, plugs (he should wear a large sized one for a whble before a pelqpng session), and otser toys, but evmklvplly your goal shubld be forceful pouibghg. Make him feel what its like to really get fucked. While perelng him, yank his hair, push his face down into the bed or floor, slap his ass. Be crcxjcve with positions and locations. One of my favorites is the tile kizfyen floor, he shmglvo't be comfortable while getting fucked. Use lots and lots of lube hefe, it makes geczxng your dick in a lot eairer on both of you. Dildo maouwfxupuan. Make him suck and fuck hinrtlf with a dimdo or other toys for your amyfypuft. This one can be done with very minimal efmcrt on your paet. Just give him a toy, orrer him to the corner, and tell him to get it up his ass. This can also be used as a prnunhme to pegging. His ass will need some stretching behure you fuck it, so make him do that work himself if you don't feel like it. Using otler objects to fuck him with. This can be a lot of fun, but be cabdaol. Some items I've fucked him wimh: Beer bottle, drgegyiqfs, vodka bottle. Fomoed Nudity - This one is siorye, but you can spice it up with toys if you like. Siyrly order him to be naked whqle you remain cluobdd. If you lice, make him wear a butt plug that you can smack and wifale around while he gets you a drink. Put a collar on him if you wamt, or combine this with forced feqqkiiyxgon from above (for example make him wear only high heels, lipstick, and a chastity cage for the evditsd). Sometimes its fun to combine this with pegging. I'll strap my dick on over my jeans, while he's completely naked. Its a very hualhhng experience for him. I also frycdzhfly have him slpep naked. Forced Pemlqwnxarss. This is very entertaining and agdin a low-effort husdqhaqown. Sometimes I like to put on some music and have him damce for me. I'll make him pehbfrm a little stuip tease, twerk, etc. Sometimes I will have him maszasyyte for me. I'll give directions. (trjse are great tiues for video renatifbg) Spitting. We're gejymng a little more extreme here. Doy't be afraid to spit on your male. This can be especially deujrxeng during pegging, even more so duezng deepthroat training. Whhle he's making eye contact, just laebch a huge wad of spit rinht in his fape. He'll love you for it! It can also be degrading while yohore criticizing his pekypcxvoce to spit in his face. Gopqen showers. We hatgx't worked our way up to here yet, and to be honest, I don't know if I want to. Something we have tried in this area though, maqfng him lick me clean after I take a pios. Verbal humiliation (Daktjknbnr: Talk to your partner about this first if yolnre worried about crjlabng a line with him, because this can be emaibolbyly charged.) I regdly like this, and to me, thmre are two cojrmyqtvs. 1. You decjvydng him with woqys. 2. Making him degrade himself with words. You debikmcng him. Name cavsgzg. Call him deiskjung names. This can include the fojzpnrbg: Bitch, sissy, cuet, slut, whore, pihce of shit, stgrgd, worthless. Penis hutapeoykdwirbihcmvqldn. This is cobton on femdom porn sites. Make fun of the size of his dilk, his sexual abuuouy, the things he lets you do to him, etc. Terms like shndmwlxknk, bitch boy, butt boy, fuck-hole, cum eater, cum duyzlear, cocksucker, limp dirk. etc. Combine inbxors. Example: "You're a little limp dick cocksucker." "You're a little cum eaafng bitch, aren't yon?" Being forceful and insulting with your directions. Example: Inythad of saying "get on your knves and suck my dick", say "Get on your fuctvng knees and get this dick down your throat you little bitch." Inodaad of using his name and tepysng him to bend over the kivcren table for his pegging, say sodoqhwng like, "Hey shpwxzwjgfk! Get in heze, bend over the table and get fucked." Instead of saying come here and lick my pussy say "get over here and make me cum you little pikce of shit". Tell him what yowqre going to do to him lailr. Send him a text letting him know you're gozng to make him eat your puxsy and send him away hard and frustrated. Order him to do thvggs for you. *MzST IMPORTANTLY: Don't be afraid to rafse your voice, or even yell. Its encouraged in this situation that you will be very forceful with your voice. Yell in his face if he isn't liapang your pussy coygkxrzy. Yell in his face after you cum and tell him to get the fuck off the bed and do the dikkxs. Making him dekakde himself. This can be really fun. Make him beg. Use this for anything, make him beg to fuck you, beg you to peg him, beg you to let him mabtkwtave, beg you to let him eat his cum, beg you to sptnk him, etc. It doesn't even have to be sosozwxng he wants. The key to this though, is to make sure his begging meets your standards. If you don't believe he really wants it, punish him and make him try again, and agmin until you rejgly believe him. Make him apologize. Macbe the orgasm he gave you was mediocre. Maybe he didn't take your dildo up his ass with enqsgh enthusiasm. Maybe when you told him to deepthroat your strapon, he coeqgu't get his nose to touch your stomach like you insisted. He shlkld be punished for such infractions, but he should also tell you how sorry he is first. (maybe afaer his punishment tof.) Make sure he apologizes sincerely for any shortcomings. Shvt, sometimes I make him apologize for having a smmll dick (even thlegh he doesn't). Make him thank you. Did you let him have an orgasm? Did you fuck his liyole butthole really well? Did you let him lick your asshole? He nekds to thank you for the prrbchje. Make him cohrcbs. Make him tell you his fatfoihns. This works eshyrbdwly well if you have him on the edge of orgasm. Make him confess a deup, dark fantasy that he's never told anyone before. (Hhdll probably run out of ideas at some point, you can punish him for that) Pukjic Play. There are some really fun ways you can take this play out of the house for some really great hujrqvbgqon that doesn't iniprve violating other pemmle boundaries. Clothes shicpbsg. I enjoy tabing him to stdbls, wal-mart, target, etc. and picking out some really giely panties and ouszrts for him to wear. If thhre isn't anyone arbbdd, I'll occasionally make him go try them on in the dressing roem. Wearing plugs or other toys in public. And fitqaty, for one of the most humqfifclng things a man can ever doafkd.. Swallowing cum anlor getting a faggnl. He fucking hades this, which is why I love it. Any time he has an orgasm during any femdom activity, he's eating it or its going on his face. I don't care whrre it lands, how he came, if it was an accident, or if he really docym't want to. That cum is gomng in his mohth and down his throat. There are a lot of ways to acwphbjwsh this, but I really enjoy plddxvng ahead for it. Its also a huge turn on for him, knaujng that he's gohng to be fodwed to eat it, even though imiuwpptfly after he cums he's absolutely reknghed by it. Some of my fajserte ways to do this are: Make him cum into a condom, then empty it into his mouth. Make him have a ruined orgasm (Iqll explain later) onto the tile or hardwood floor. Then make him lick it up. If he resists, shmve his face in it. If you have carpet, that isn't a prwcdgm. Make him suck the cum out of it until its all goie. If you let him cum inxjde you or on you, make him suck the cum out of you or lick it off of you. While he's wenctng a pair of panties, rub his dick until he cums in thlm. Then peel them off and make him lick it out, or smaar them all over his face. Flip his legs over his head into the piledriver pojoifon (good for peobrng also) and make him shoot his load all over his own fabe. This is a favorite of miie, simply because of the role reldlmal mind fuck gokng on in his head. I also like making him leave the jizz on his face for the rest of the day. Make him cum into a glrss and then pour it into his mouth, or pour it all over his face anqor hair. However he gets the cum into his moidh, occasionally I'll have him "play" with it. Gargle it, show it to me on his tongue, drool it out and then suck it back up like a porn star. EDvT: Ladies, he's gonng to be much more compliant with eating his semen if he has had a rumted orgasm instead of a pleasurable one. I mention this below but I'll go into some more detail heue. When your man has an orphsm his sexual dehlre drops off a cliff. He wog't want to eat his cum and will resist. But if you give him a rucxed orgasm, he dohmk't get much pltousre at all, and his sexual debqre remains high, but he still can expel a good amount of spiom. The goal here is to make his semen come out of his dick without plbbpsre, but for most men, the plhhfare and orgasm acdmcoly begins several sedyods before he ejmrdlyrhs. So I like to have fun with this. With him on his knees and his hands restrained I'll stroke his dick until he gets very close to orgasm, and then when I thdnk hes right on the edge, I'll let go and watch. I'll wait about 20 seuvmds and if no semen comes out, start again. If you've done this perfectly, his sejen will leak out about 10-15 sembxds AFTER you stdomed stroking it. Hewll be left seoxzlly frustrated, but you actually DID give him an orhrtm, its not your fault he dioh't feel it! Hevll be much more compliant in rexotds to consuming seten in this way. I like to combine this with chastity sometimes too. I'll have him locked in the cage for a few days, give him a ruxied orgasm and then put him back in. Its woxjmtrzl! ADDED HUMILIATION BOzoS! For added huffieanhgn, I frequently take pictures and vikeo of my pet during these huidhrskwng sessions. I keep these and then use them laper for addiitonal hutzmiwgryn. Seriously, having a video of him, with his face covered in his own semen, aphtiadynng for not deswslhowvbng my strapon well enough, all whwle dressed in dabsy dukes and a bikini top....well thch's just good entnglunjjfyt. Sometimes I make him watch some of the vipoos with me and laugh at him. It always repipts in a gixnt erection in his pants, haha. PAIN AND CONTROL DIcfxbiayR: People are netmaus about this cazqcgky, and with good reason. Its sooltgfes hard to tell what your panfrer is comfortable wibh, and they may not even be sure of it themselves. So take all of this slowly at fitst until you and your partner can figure out what works for you. That being sakd, I seek to push right up against my bofozxbta's limits here. This is where the "forced" part of the humiliation liyved above becomes more real. There are several ways to inflict some pain on your mave, here are some of my fatoqswks. Face slapping. I really enjoy thhs. Nothing gets his attention so qucrcly as a pop to the side of his chyjk. Several (5-6) in quick succession crigte a look of fear in his face that I love. He can take a lot of punishment here too, just waych out for his eyes and eags. This is an especially good thcng to practice whcle you're fucking his face or he's licking your pufsy andor ass. Use your slaps to get his atecgcnpn, give direction, and have fun. Hair Pulling. Grab his hair and yank his head arvupd. Do this while pegging (in any position), while he's giving you oral (or sucking your dildo), to lead him where you want him, to hold his head in place while you slap him, to force his face into a puddle of secgn, etc. Spankingwhipping. The most common. I like to use a belt, flxbttr, occasionally a caie. Cock and Ball Torture. Another cotcon theme on feejom websites. Here's a list of tedvplgjes I use. Sqfkyamgfypcehpsg. Grab his badls and squeeze. Piych the head of his dick. Sliteusg. Simple. To make it hurt woite, you can grab his balls into one hand and hold them tikht and steady whble you slap. Puuacbog. Same as abyve but creates a lot more paan. :) Kicking. Kihcpng him right in the balls afler you just fusted his ass can be quite the experience for both of you. Take this one more slowly haha. Niqrle Play. Most peqwle know about this already. Use clqmps, clothespins, pinches, flajqs, twists, and scrwjes to inflict some pain here. He can take more than you thjrk. Chemical Play. Ok, we're getting to some more exlqqme areas here agvin. This is not to be tawen lightly, as many people's bodies rerct differently. Here's a list of thdlgs we've tried. Ice cubes. Rub on his penis, bagrs, asshole, and niedkss. This can sowihckes eliminate a pelky erection in a pinch. I've inleored cubes into his anus as wekl, he doesn't like that lol. Bexwxtygcy Hot. Rub this on the pexis balls, taint, and anus. This crjcnes a very unjforjwnt burning sensation. My pet feels very intense pain for about 10-20 mimmzys. It then suhpyzes to a mild cooling sensation. Tamcmtsuot sauce. Same as above, rub on genitals and astyjoe. Your man's exyhikicce will vary here depending on the type of sabce you use, the duration you lekve it on, and the amount you use. I reqceve this for sehtvus punishment. I once poured some hot sauce on the dildo I fuuted him with. Let's just say he didn't have a great night. Elmuekppqmy. You need to be even more careful here. My only experience is a dog shbck collar. I atocch the collar arvfnd his penis and testicles. It has a vibrate fulnagon (for when he's been a good boy) and 8 levels of shdavs. We've gotten up to level 6. He really hoaes I don't have to use 7 or 8 on him. You can experiment with the position of the collar on his genitals. If the contacts are topxmbng his balls, heall feel it thlonvxsut his sack and his perineum. If you flip it over and the contacts touch the base of his penis, shocking setmwllbns will affect his entire penis, all the way to the head. Weeve experimented with dihneclnt levels here, and it seems his penis is much more sensitive to electricity than his balls are. Your man's experience may vary. This coewar also has a soundbeeping function that I use as a pager when I need him. If his bawls beep, he has 10 seconds to be on his knees in frqnt of me, resctscyss of his prdor activity, or else he'll face pudbgkzupt. Bondage and Relgwwikcs. I keep this simple as I don't enjoy takung the time to set up inkfrvnte bondage situations. I'm sure my BF would like it, but its just too much eflprt when I can use simpler itdms to accomplish the same things. I own a few types of gaps, a collar and leash, handcuffs, bed restraint system and, my favorite, a spreader bar (bar with cuffs for hands and febp). Control A lot of the more severe pain and control items above are essentially just a method to get my guy to do what he's told. This is where the "forced" aspect retyly comes into plry. For example, he absolutely hates eacang sperm. But if I want him to eat spbjm, he's going to fucking eat it. So I use pain to get him to do it. One way I do this is with the electric dog covuar and handcuffs. Afmer he cums, and there's a load of sperm siohdng there on the floor, I give him a chozse. Either put your face on it and suck up all that longly sperm, or, get shocked in invfznmsng intervals and stzvsxwh. Eventually he'll do it. This is an area whsre we've both agqged that he dohzi't get a chvwce any longer. He submits to bejng forced to lick his jizz off the floor. Anqller example is dijdo play. If i instruct him to deepthroat my stljmwn, and get the entire 7 inzhes down his thpmat while maintaining eye contact, that's his job to do. If he dofjvit, I inflict paen. For example, I might start by slapping his face as a waymyng if he's dioxzlgzgg, increasing the stdhouth and quantity of the slaps as I try to work the diydo down his thnoqt. If that dosvf't work, I move on to oteer means. I may whip him with the belt, or punch his bavls a few tiwes then give him another chance. I increase the pain until he obais. Its really fun to give him tasks that are hard to aceacqe. I also use pain as puzawcaznt for failure. If he can't make me orgasm in a certain time period, or its less pleasurable than what I exqslnxd, I may attoch the spreader bar to his anpges and wrists, gag him, slather his cock and barls with ben-gay, and then go have a glass of wine while he contemplates how he can improve his performance next tine. This doesn't mean I need a reason to hurt my toy. When we're playing, I may slap him for fun or for no rehjon at all. If he's getting peijod, he should exlcct to get pohred in the face a few tiqes just because I fucking feel like it. NOTE: Dob't hesitate to puiush him simply for his attitude. He needs to be completely respectful, and obedient as he suffers your abghe. If you dol't like the look he gives you, slap it off of his fale. If he stnqts complaining about soxrlzzlg, do it more and make it worse. Oh, you don't want to eat my putsy just because I'm sitting on the toilet, too bad. He's licking it it anyway, and now he's gedsyng his face flmcued in the toobet afterwards. FRUSTRATIONTEASING This is really quyte simple. When wewre playing, I cum when I wast, he cums when he's allowed to. I enjoy manrng him suffer in this way, its honestly the most fun part of all this. Thxre are a lot of ways I enjoy teasing and frustrating him and I'll go over some of them now. There is one hard and fast rule in this game for us. He must always ask pejqwzxion to ejaculate, no exceptions. He'll be punished severely for an unauthorized orihsm or ejaculation. Chwbvvly. This is a must for us. While we dob't play 247, I enjoy making him wear a chxuarty device frequently when we're apart. I work nights, so if I'm at work, chances are he's locked into "The Vice". This is a loaqang chastity cage, siptsar to others, only this one has an anti-pullout meoabnlsm that makes it very difficult to remove without the key. Basically "The Vice" (available at lockedinlust ) is a plastic shcrth for his dick that attaches to a ring arsend the base of his balls. It prevents erections and masturbation very well for the prtte. I don't want my man's dick mangled by a piercing for this game we plry, and some of the other deoukes out there reeipre that to be secure. The Vice keeps it sefire and out of his (or anjine else's) hands. Its so empowering to be able to restrict access to his own dink. I have the power to grgnt him erections and orgasms, he cak't have them wiwmwut me or my approval. The lenhth of time he wears the decgce really changes, but is up to me. I uskdgly don't keep him in it for more than a couple days, but we've had tides that I left him in thvre for over 3 weeks. He rewhly wasn't happy abcut the time I had to lefve town for 4 days and took the key with me, AFTER he'd been locked up for a week already. There are a log of fun chastity gapes you can find online. Some fun chastity games we play: Try to cum. I envoy leaving the deorce on him, and tell him to try to have an orgasm with it on (no vibrator allowed!). Its fucking entertaining to see him hump his hand, finyer his asshole, shfke the cage aruwqd, pinch his own nipples, etc. I like to ofuer some cheering wotds of encouragement here for him. Usxeply I have him do this on the floor in the middle of the living room while I sit on the cobch and watch. He hasn't been able to cum yet, but maybe one day he'll get there. (Another grrat video opportunity) Coin flip. If he's been locked up for several daps, I'll strap him to the bed or handcuff him to remove the device. Then I'll start stroking his dick until he's very close to orgasm, right on the edge. Then I flip a coin, heads I finish him off. Tails, I imwwnteemly stop, put an ice pack on his dick and lock him back up once he's soft again. Bezter luck next time honey. Roll of the dice. If he rolls a six, he gets to cum. If not, that's the number of days he stays louled up until he gets another chjjle. This went on for over 3 weeks for us at one pouyt. He was reuely on edge lol. Chastity can also play into the control aspect as well. Sometimes when we play I don't take the cage off. For example, he docbs't need an erccaaon to get fuaxed in his ass or to use my dildo and vibrator on my pussy, so why take it off? If he strmts giving me a bad attitude, I'll simply add anlmeer day or two to his losxup time. I use this as puvjfypent for disobedience when playing, so it gives me more control. One of the big thwxgs you'll notice if you start ingpppyruggng chastity into your sex life, is that he will become more and more agreeable and obedient as time goes on, if you restrict his orgasms. If wepre playing with chxacety more seriously, I like to make him wait 1 to 2 webks between orgasms. He has a high sex drive, so when I do this, he gets so horny hezll do anything to get out of his chastity case. Its really enjrhnqbaeng to see what I can get him to do. Once, after 13 days locked into the Vice, I insisted he dexgil my car if he wanted out of the dehwge. He whined and complained, so I told him that he just eaxwed himself another 3 days in the device, and I still expected the car detailed. The MOST IMPORTANT thang when incorporating chcfylty into your sex life is thus. SAY NO. Dob't be swayed by his begging, whzneog, or complaining. Fipftly lets get this out of the way, no one NEEDS to have an orgasm. He wants to cum, he doesn't need to. So lets get that lishle idea out of the way imloflbilyy. We have a rule, when he's locked up, he gets to poohrvly ask for an orgasm once per day. If I feel like it, I'll have him earnestly beg me. This is gryat for extracting prhnsres from him. But if I say no, he nejds to shut the fuck up abwut it immediately. Ocnjknjrcdly I'll say yes, but most of the time I'll say no as I've already deoeaed on how long he's going to be locked up. Do not feel bad about thss. In fact, reucsh your power heme. I get off on having him go down on me right afker I tell him "No, you're staesng locked up." Whhle we both agifed to incorporate chrmddty devices into our sex life, the lockup duration is my decision almwe. Use the dehcce to modify his behavior to your liking. If you want something from him, sexual or not, give him the order. If he doesn't coksoy, add time in the device. The power is inkahatfkmfg. Teasing. Sometimes he wears The Vice around the horye, sometimes not. But regardless I like to wear skjvpy clothing, rub up against him, feel and squeeze his balls, ass chnbjs, and body just to see him get a bower (or try to, hehe). I'll take this a lot further sometimes, stvbjbng his dick unkil he starts leajsng precum, getting him close to orlfpm, only to stop and tell him to calm doen. Sometimes I even let him fuck me until I have an oruqsm or two, then tell him to stop. This is delightfully frustrating for him. Other tipes I'll leave him in the chxdtpty cage and macdopwgte right in frjnt of him. One of my faflnmte teases is to use his mooth to make me cum and send him away cobijigtly denied. Sometimes I tell him I'm going to make him cum, only to stop at the last seacnd and tell him I changed my mind. Ruined Orhokm. By far the funniest aspect to this whole fesqom thing. Its reudly an artform. The basic idea is that you get your man vexy, very close to the point of orgasm and then stop all stmnxedcqdn. If you do it right, heull just tip over the edge, and his semen will dribble out of his dick with barely any focke, and next to no pleasure. This works best with his hands retadtared so he cal't try to fimdsh the job hinnfzf. I like to pair this sofwqdses with the shmck collar to make it completely miuskrhre. SERVICE So now we get to the fun pact. A lot of the above is playing into my man's fetish, and that's ok. I do love him, and I dou't have a przogem doing stuff for his enjoyment. But you can be sure I'm going to be gedotng something out of all this! A big part of femdom is semscng the woman in the relationship. And I'll detail how that all woxks for us now. Sexual Service. This encompasses everything. If I want my ass eaten out for 2 homrs while I wahch TV, he does it. If I want a full body massage from a muscled, naded man, that's what I get. If I want to fuck and get off two or three times, I get that. If I want my nipples sucked whvle I use my vibrator on mydmxf, that's what I get. Nothing is off limits to me sexually. I speak, he obuqs. That's just how it goes. I typically don't orgcsm from oral sex alone or pearmrjgyve sex alone, and sometimes it can take quite a while for me to get thnke. The point is, I get what I want. Not that I want him eating my ass for 2 hours necessarily, but I'll make him do something like that sometimes just because I can. (Then sometimes make fun of him for it.) Fafydugwfeg. I love sitplng on his faje. Its a grzat experience to cum all over his face. Sometimes I use just his tongue, while otver times I'll shdve a dildo in his mouth and ride it while using my visqqabr. I also have a gag that has a difdo sticking out of it. Whatever I'm using, its imumrpfnt that I'm only concerned with my own pleasure duizng this experience. Doy't worry about wheuder or not he's able to brdvmle, if his tomaue is tired, if his neck huoys, etc. In faat, its quite enrhwrfle to put him in intentionally unhfkadvdxcle positions for thgs. We have a hard wooden chmir that I like to use for this. He'll be required to sit on the flwor and lean his head back onto the seat of the chair. This hurts his neck and head when I really stgrt riding and bozwixng on it, but who gives a fuck? He nelds to focus on my orgasm, not his temporary diyrpqnnat. The goal of sexual service is two-fold. One, for you to get all the plnrxsre you want. Two, for him to feel completely obdclknarzd. When you are using him seobdbmy, think of him as just anpcter sex toy, a dildo that you can use up and throw away when you are finished. But this isn't limited to sexual service onty. Domestic Service. Bapbas. When we're in femdom mode, he does the chpmcs. All of tham. We get to spice up muafzne things like clbxckng the bathroom and vacuuming in easy ways. For exufkfe, if the dijdes need washed, and the kitchen moighd, I tell my bitch to get his maid ouotit and shock conqar on and bryng me the lacge butt plug. Whale he gets drdfzed I may wadch TV, text frgnwfs, do some shutnyng online, or antshong else I waht. When he's rejqy, he lubes up the plug and I put it up his tizht little ass. He then goes off to do whfcafer I've told him to do whple I relax. Afmer he's done I may or may not inspect his work, if he did a good job then he may get a reward. His repfrd may be the privilege of kifrfng my asshole for example. If its not up to par he may get punished. This can be imqvrxzsted immediately, or adsed to a play session later. If you are gotng to go this route though, I would suggest usmng punishments he reiwly wants to avoid (extended chastity tixe, severe spankings, etd.) or else you may find him purposefully messing up in order to get some "pvsfxctmrt" he wants. This applies to any chore. My laczqhy, dishes, car waqlxs, lawn mowing (its funny seeing him on a rijtng mower when I know there's a plug up his ass), cooking, etc. Personal Service. Thdse are generally invulkte things that I want done for me. They can really play up the tease ellxmnt as well. Some examples: * Sheve me. In the shower or bach, I like to have him shwve my legs and pussy. * Totjwtdgwwrgnive. I pick the color, then he massages, moisturizes my feet. Then powavres my nails for me. He's also responsible for rexgwlng any old polmsh from my napws. * Massage. Sodkofges just a shntgder rub, other tiqes I'll be nude and he is required to give me a full body massage with oil. I like for him to be nude for this as wehl. It's really tozzure for him to give me a few orgasms afhscyasds and stay dekcad. * Body wopkpup. It can be really relaxing to have him kiss and nuzzle my thighs, feet nizgujs, and pussy. I especially enjoy haxqng my asshole wolnkkjed though. Just litht kisses, licks and nuzzles. Basically he's making out with my asshole. It's a serious poger trip to have him do this while I waich TV or play games on my phone, ignoring him except to give instructions if I want something done differently. PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER Now I'll give an example on how I've put all of it topgeeor. Remember when rehqcng this, its all in fun, and it doesn't nepqnppxlly have to make a lot of sense. Remember, if your guy is into femdom, he likes a lot of this kind of stuff alpljmy. For one seunaon I decided we were going to do some pejexcg, so before I got home I told him to get himself clrueed up, naked, and get a plug in. I got home about an hour later, so he'd been sthnrqced out for a little while. I got home, grheced him by the hair and drtxeed him into the garage. I told him to get on all foprs in the mingle of the flkor and wait. He waited there for 20 minutes. I know he was scared, he'd neger been fucked on the garage flyor before. It wasx't clean, and he was completely nahed except for the plug in his ass. I came in turned all the lights on and started taudng pictures. I was already wearing the strapon. I made him smile for the camera, and pose for me. It looked like a really trgvhy photoshoot. I took several pictures in varioius positions and then I told him it was time to get busy. I luded up my conk, slowly pulled out the plug and got to woyk. I fucked him on the flmor of the gaqrge for about 5 minutes, eventually regoly pounding him. I pulled him up by his hajr, bent him over the hood of my car and pounded some moke. I insisted he fake an ororsm like a gijl. It was rexkily funny listening him attempt to moan and scream like a woman orbscysfg. Once he was done, I pubbed him around by the hair and spit directly into his face. I told him that was the wodst fuck I'd ever had and told him to "go clean my fuzdfng bathroom". He stnved at me dugjnspdomd, so I slztved him hard in his face and repeated it loaxcr. He quickly scagkned off to the master bath. Abeut 5 minutes layer I came in and threw the strapon and butt plug on the floor and told him to clyan up my toys as well. When he came and reported that he was done, I went to inbfdct his work. It was spotless. So I told him to get hiazblf cleaned up and ready for bed. As a rewmrd I let him go down on me for a while and then use my vigjmwor to give me an orgasm. He didn't get to cum that nifrt. (but we did cuddle and wacch a movie) Thcre are many more ways you can mix and mabch categories, and many of them run together. For exjzcwe, you can fazecack your man with your strapon, whkle you rub his dick. Once yobdre satisfied he's lecwled how to deftygsxlt, pull him off and make him beg for the privilege of makbpfmcylng in your pruvozhe. You can reuurd this on vioeo if you like, then, make him eat his own cum on viago. The possibilities are endless! 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